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Hi everyone, not sure if this has been talked about so I apologize if it has. Here is my problem. Out of what I have been dealt with, i.e., surgery, can not walk, etc. My issue is friends and family. I always thought I was blessed with so many friends and good family, I had done what I could for any of them, if I had extra money and they needed it I shared, lending a helping hand in any physical way. I have always been a generous person, even if I listed the top things I did you all would agree. Let me say, I have never ever expected anything back, never never. I was always more then happy with a hug and a thank you.
My accident happened in Nov. since then, I have had the people whom I barely know from church bring me and my husband dinners (my husband at the time just had knee replacement 10 days before my knee surgery) and asked if they could help. Fortunately my kids are grown and helped. My point of this, I haven’t received any phone calls from family, one of my sisters calls me,(my husband and I both have a large family) not even a phone call from the people I did the most for. I don’t expect anyone to come do anything, its ok. but, not a phone call? are they afraid I am going to ask them to do something? Then I cant help but think, maybe I was a “bad” person, maybe I see myself in a different way. I just want to see if its me or anyone else.
Feeling really low about it.